Be Nice But Don’t Be A Doormat

refuse to be a doormat

Familiarity breeds contempt. Being "friendly or outgoing" doesn't mean you should be a doormat. You won't be loved by everybody. Many will pretend around you. Some will genuinely love you and be there for you no matter what. Others will vanish at the drop of a hat. "Frenemies" (friendly foes) exist. "Everyone is the friend of one who gives gifts" (Proverbs 19:6). Whichever situation you encounter, just be yourself [nice but wise] AND keep your self-respect. You give some Continue Reading

Activate and Win Package

how to know your purpose

I want to help you activate your purpose and do what you were called to do. Your current level is NOT your best level. As we celebrate the holiday season, it is also a time of year when many people feel unfulfilled, walk with regrets because what they planned to do did not take place. […]

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Believe You Can and You Will


You can do it. You can do it. You can do it. Those words were repeated to reassure you that you can win. No matter what life throws at you, be determined to rise above it. “How do I rise above a situation that doesn’t seem to have a way out? Are you kidding me? It’s easy […]

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When Family and Friends Don’t Support You


Image: melking/ Don’t expect all family and friends to support your business venture, cause or ministry. Infact, you may just be in this ‘thing’ all by yourself. It’s the truth and it can taste bitter. You will encounter naysayers and people who mock you. You will experience situations where you feel alone for daring to […]

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Enjoy Your Life and Be Happy


Sometime ago I watched a short video by Ric Elias, CEO of Red Ventures on TED. Along with others, he survived the plane that splash landed on the icy Hudson River in 2009. After watching and listening to Ric’s speech, I couldn’t resist but ask these questions: Is negativity, quarrel or other rubbish really necessary in […]

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